Many
individuals who migrate to the United States, including men, come here only to
find out that their dream of freedom is not so near. Every day, immigrant spouses are abused and
mistreated. Many feel they need to stay
in the relationship because they feel they have no other option. They think that their only way to preserve
their immigration status, without being deported, is to stay with the spouse
that is sponsoring them. This is not the case.
I am here to tell you that you DO
have options. Here are my Safety
Steps for Freedom from violence and protection of your immigration status.
Step Number One: Document the abuse. Take photos and store them in a safe location
that is not accessible to your spouse.
If you have a cloud storage drive such as Google Drive, Box or One
Drive, store your photos there away from your abuser. Document what prompted the abusive situation
and be as thorough as you possibly can with your descriptions. There is no requirement to report the abuse
to police but if you can make a police report without jeopardizing your safety,
please do!
Step Number Two: Relocate! Abusers often apologize for their abusive
actions but rarely change their behavior.
It is important for you get yourself out of the situation. Even if you do
not have family or friends close by, you can contact a battered women’s shelter
to relocate to safety. There are many
shelters in Atlanta Metro Area that help immigrants!
Step Number Three: Communicate the
abuse to a trusted confidant. Holding
your feelings about the abuse inside or keeping the abuse a secret is not going
to help the situation. No one should live in a state of fear for their lives.
It is important to communicate the abuse with a trusted friend or family member
so that they can support you throughout your process to leave as well as your
immigration process.
Step Number Four: Call an attorney. The United States
Violence Against Women Act or VAWA, allows you to continue with your
immigration process on your own! VAWA
does not only apply to women, but to men as well. VAWA allows for safe
correspondence from USCIS, so do not fear.
If your spouse frequently intercepts and reads your mail, you can have
all of your correspondences forwarded to your attorney. VAWA also allows you to file for your
children so there is no worry about leaving them behind.
I
know that this can be a stressful process, but I am here to help. Call my office immediately for a free
consultation if you are in need of assistance with your immigration process to
escape abuse.
Tia
Smith, Esquire
Daniels
& Smith, LLC
(404)
719-5135
www.danielsandsmith.com
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